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Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Hello Blogger community I want to apologize for not doing a better job on updating y'all! If your on Facebook I do most of the updating on the Team Muzzy page or my personal Facebook.

Most of y'all who read here aren't on Facebook so I apologize in advance!

Last update seemed to be the beginning of January, my how times fly's!

So much to update on!!!

Cory's right eye is healing nicely and staying stable so far. The pressure is back down into a normal range again. His cornea is clearing up and he is beginning to be able to use his eyeglasses (needs a new prescription) to see large contrasted print, shapes, colors, light/shadow, and movement up close again. His left eye has been pretty stable this whole time so we are thinking its better to hold off on fixing it till after Cory attends blind rehab which he plans to do in August/September in Chicago, IL.

At blind rehabilitation Cory will learn to become completely independent in 4 to 6 possibly up to 8 weeks. I will be dropping him off and then heading home to NC during his schooling. At the end I get to come and be taught the best ways to help him in his new way of life, for example how to properly guide him. They will also show me everything he can do so that he cant try and get out of anything by saying he isn't able to. We joked about house work! We are hoping he can get a hard contact before he goes so that he can have his best vision possible.

He wanted to hold off on his left eye surgeries (which should only be 2 if all goes well) because from now till he leaves for blind rehab he has time to practice walking. His goal is to be using a cane instead of forearm crutches by then. He has 3 months!

Cory's left ear is healing really nicely and we expect his hearing to return to 80% fingers crossed and then the hearing aids will help in certain situations too. This is the week he comes off restrictions and can get back to walking. He still has to take it easy on straining too hard or much. He is very happy to finally get back to work! I'll be happy to get back into a routine too.

His legs are perfect! They are all healed no problems and he is soooooo happy Dr. G the amazing cached that nerve and fixed it. I catch him tapping and rubbing his nub all the time just because he can now. He couldn't touch it like that before with out hurting!

The House is looking so amazing and we couldn't have made this possible with out all of your help!
Thank you for all the love, support, prayers, and donations!
Thank you to The Americas Fund for making this happen for Cory and I!
By the time all is said and done with the help from a VA grant, The Americas Fund, Donations from all of you and savings from our hard earned money this whole project will have cost around $135,000.
This completely renovated the whole home to become accessible for Cory and then some.
Doorways where widened, half of the home was extended out the back to create more space for the kitchen, master bath and new master bedroom, we ran into water issues that had to be taken care of with 275 feet of a french pump drain, a back deck and ramp with 2 exits as required by ADA code were added along with several windows, all floors were replaced with hardwood and tile, the new master bathroom will have a roll in shower and two entrances, our previous bar counter was relocated to open up the space between the living room and kitchen eliminating the wall altogether, kitchen counters will vary in height to allow for roll in with wheelchair, roll under sink, the stove will have front access for the knobs as well as the fridge will have a drawer that pulls out at the perfect height for wheelchairs, painted the whole place, the laundry room was rearranged for roll in access and the water heater was replaced with a tank-less system, vinyl siding and gutters where installed, new furnishings, thank you garden, and outdoor toys for the boys as well. Half of the furnishings are here with us in Texas and will go back with us when we return home for good.

Want to give a shout out to All American Home Renovations and our contractor Marc and his teams for making our home into the beautiful gem it is.

We are holding a open house June 17th from 1:00 pm till 4:00 pm.
604 North Pine Street, Roseboro, NC 28382

We would love to have you come check out what your hard work went into and to give us a chance to meet you as well! Refreshments will be provided and plenty of things to do for the kids as well!

We will never be able to thank everyone enough, forever grateful!

If that date doesn't work for you please don't hesitate to visit on another, we will be home on leave from June 15th till July 6th just expect a whole bunch of crazy with me unpacking the pod after the open house!

On our second wedding anniversary we are getting the best gift ever, after 10 long months or having not seen them, we are bringing home our furbabies! Since they started the remodel they have been off at training camp where they are doing an amazing job I hear! I literally can not wait to snuggle!

On to the making baby Muzzy front. Still haven't been able to get into the infertility clinic here due to my BMI being higher then 35. I was taking 1000mg of Metiformn and getting the normal cramps and potty issues that go along with that medication despite doing the whole low carb thing as suggested, however when they upped it to 2000mg and I became nauseous all day and puking after anything I ate. I gave myself a little break. I will be restarting here soon and titrated up again as I can handle. I take Metiformn for insulin resistance due to PCOS. After several tests and a biopsy it was determined my lining to be too thick so I am now on Provera 14 days on and 14 days off till told otherwise to stop. I will have to redo the tests and biopsy in 6 months. In the mean time I have to do a 2hr glucose test and another HSG. Cory's semen analysis came back abnormal, the one prior to the accident was normal so he was referred to a urologist and has to repeat another semen analysis. I am hoping that it was somehow just a mistake. Its hard enough having me be the problem with out adding to it. Ill just keep my fingers crossed. I ordered a ton of things I am hoping will help the process. I am starting a low-carb/little to no sugar/clean eating diet at at least 80% along with becoming more active to lose some weight since that's apparently the reason for all things infertile. Which I get so tired of hearing because honestly I know its better on my body but when I lost 80 pounds before it made no difference in having a baby. Not once have I ever in my life gotten a positive test or had to worry about it like most people. It simply just doesn't happen for me. I do not ovulate. Sorry for the vent. I have invested in several tools to help when things start to get more serious and are no longer all tests. I have fertile-Aid, Ova-boost, fertile CM, fertile focus saliva ovulation detector, Ovu-Sense monitoring system, PreSeed, Pro+ & Endoflex essential oils, soft cups, and a gazillion hcg test strips. So to say the least we are pretty serious!

On to some awesomeness! Cory has shown some interest a few times about learning to play guitar. So I thought well hey he must be serious, I set to Facebook to ask some questions and a friend and fellow wounded warrior wife sent us to Warrior Cry Music Project to see if they could help!
What a truly amazing organization they instantly brought us on board! If I could explain the excitement in Cory's face to learn something new, to find a new hobby that isn't almost completely changed just because he cant see, it was just the most beautiful thing I have seen in awhile. Not only will Cory be learning but they brought me on board as well! So we will be learning together! I am totally in love with this idea. Its something new that we get to build with each other. I am so happy he is finally finding new hobbies he is loving and I'm starting to see the pain of not being able to do what he use to anymore leave his body and be replaced by these new awesome things! Kayaking and Guitar!

God thank you for all your blessings and continue to watch over our supporters!

Sorry for such a long read!

-Team Muzzy


See a video of Cory being silly HERE

See a video of Cory walking  HERE



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